My Thoughts on Learning About your Slave

I believe that is a Master’s responsibility to learn everything there is to know about his slave and her history in time. Only then can he be fully prepared to control and manage his slave to the best of his ability. The knowledge he gains about his slave will help him make important decisions about how he and his slave should interact together and how best to control and manage his slave. Learning about another person is not an easy thing to accomplish. Often, time distorts ones prospective of history, other times things are too painful to remember accurately, if at all. The human mind has the ability to forget/hide or block out traumatic events that have happened in one’s life, and it may be those very events that need to be re-discovered or learned to make them beneficial to the Master and his slave. Even general history becomes an important asset with learning about one’s slave, for it is the history of her life that has formed her being as well as her prospective on most all things. The more the Master knows about his slave’s history the better it will be for both parties. Even things such as daily routines from childhood, or experiences during the formative years of growth become very good insights into how the slave thinks and experiences life. For instance, if a slave has had a submissive personality all of her life, she may have been subject to mistreatment by siblings, family members, schoolmates or friends. Conversely, her submissive personality may have been a very productive and satisfying part of her life, giving to and helping others is often a very satisfying part of a submissive person.  Those are typical of the things that need to be learned by the Master to give him better insight into his slave. I believe that the bulk of the learning process should take place as soon as its reasonable and agreeable to do so, as the more information the Master has about his slave the better the training can be tailored to suit her individual needs and requirements. However, a slave may be more comfortable talking about more intimate things over time and as a greater level of mutual trust is built. She should not be forced into a situation of revealing “all” without that mutual trust being present.  A slave’s viewpoints and emotions are also very important things to be learned and considered by a Master. These things also take time to learn and be talked about. Emotions are not normally something that people reveal about themselves to others. They are perceived as “personal” and private things. These however need to be explored and revealed as well in order for the Master to understand the “workings” of his slave. The slave should recognize this and understand it’s necessary for her Master to know these things, in order for him to interact appropriately with her and to properly control all the situations that they might encounter over time. While it is possible for a Master to learn some/many of these things by interaction, exposure and experience, I believe that it is much better to devote the necessary amount of time to this learning process, and as a result, make the relationship that much stronger and the Master and slave closer together.