Friday, December 10, 2010

My Thoughts on Emotions in the Master/slave Relationship

I believe that it is the Master’s responsibility to nurture and help a slave to grow emotionally. Like many slaves in the lifestyle, some have PTSD. (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and as a result, often have haunting emotions from the past that overcome them  from time to time as well as affect their thought processes and opinions. This becomes fertile ground for a Master to help his slave resolve some of her issues and also provide an environment that is beneficial to her daily life. By very slowly and over time allowing a slave to talk about her emotions and feelings and taking however much time is necessary to allow that to happen, hopefully many of those issues can be resolved to be better for her and many of her PTSD triggers can be disarmed. While no one can change ones history, there are certain things that can be done to make that history be viewed in a somewhat different light and as a result make those historical events resolvable in her mind to the point that they no longer become a major issue in her emotional life. I firmly believe that extended communication between Master and slave and sharing of these emotions becomes a beneficial process to pursue. In my opinion, these things need to be addressed over time and not something that can be accomplished in short order. Each historical event has its own issues and complications that must be talked about at length and then revised to make the resolution better in the slave’s head for that one event. This process should be initiated by the slave as her emotions on a specific topic emerge and they then become open for discussion with the appropriate trust and dependence in place. It is sometimes beneficial for some historical events to be addressed chronologically as well as one may have an effect on the next.  A  Master is responsible to care for and protect his slave and her health. That includes her mental health as well as her physical health. To talk about emotions and bring them out from the darkness can make the relationship better and stronger.

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